,,,He
said, "What I love about you, is that you don't know how beautiful
you are."
He
said,"You make me want to be a better person."
She
said, "Don't talk so much, just give me a hug. Because when
tomorrow comes, and the next fancy thing swishes by, you'll no longer
want to be a better person."
xxx
Why
do some women change their bodies in so many ways just to attract
a man, keep a man by their side, perpetuate the suffocating myth
that they're desirable? Why? Is it not enough to be, without having
to stuff silicon into our breasts, without having to embellish ourselves
in so many ways?
Are
we not good enough the way we were born, each destined to be unique
individuals?
Some
sacrifice their individual greatness to the collective definition
of beauty
Are
we not good enough as we are? Do we have to change ourselves in
so many ways?
Who
am I? Am I not good enough? Just to be. Just being me - is it enough?
If
I were to just be me, who am I?
Is
it so important to be desired, just so we can be, just be, us? I
want him to be attracted by the me, but who am I?
I
long to be me, unreservedly me. It must be a tremendously powerful,
powerfully liberating feeling, just to be me. It's enough, I'm sure
it's enough, just to be , me.
xxx
For
this is what I believe. That whosoever comes into your life, at
this point, is meant to be. There is a universal law of attraction
that draws him into your life. He wants you as much as you want
him. You don't have to change, struggle to be different from what
you were born to be. Of course, if you're cantakerous, covetous,
bitter and resentful, then you've got to change, because that's
not what you were born to be. If you are fearful, timorous, uncertain,
indecisive, filled with dread, then you've got to change, because
that's not what you were meant to be. But if you just followed that
path that was set out for you at birth, when you were a naked babe,
suckling at your mother's breasts, then you will find your happiness.
I
am a sweet, gentle, loving and tender woman, giving of her love
to her family and friends. I am a true and devoted wife, a loving
and nurturing mother. Because if you believe, you are.
This
morning, tonight, today, say this prayer with me:
"I
am a gentle, loving, kind, tender and nurturing woman. I am attracting
into my life right now a man who treasures these qualities in me,
a man who is kind, gentle, sincere, loyal, generous, courageous,
morally upright and loving. He loves me for who I am. He wants me
just as I want him. When our paths meet, we will recognise each
other immediately; we will see in each other the qualities that
we treasure the most. Above all else, I recognise that it's enough
to be me, just to be me. I am perfect and lovely as I am."
xxx